Sex can be an important part of our lives. It can be exciting, loving and fun but can also make you feel nervous, anxious or scared. You might feel worried that you are the only person not having sex or have questions you just don’t know who to ask. The school nurse team can help answer your questions; give you advice and support you in understanding whether you are ready.
Confidential
Confidentiality means we will not tell anybody about our conversation including your teachers, your parents or friends unless we feel you are at risk or in danger. Where it was safe to do so, we would let you know why we were worried and who we were sharing the information with.
How can I contact a school nurse?
Ask school for an appointment with the school nurse. You do not need to give a reason. School will contact us and we will arrange a time to see/speak with you. You can also email us directly on medch.schoolhealth@nhs.net. This email is not monitored constantly or outside of school times eg weekends or evenings so you may not hear from us immediately.
Is it the right time for you? Are you Ready?
The legal age for sex in England is 16. This applies to everyone whether you are in a relationship with someone of the opposite or same sex but it does not stop you seeking advice or support if you are under 16yrs and thinking about sex. We are here to help and support you.
Consent is about giving permission for something to happen. Nobody has the right to force you or make you do something you are not in agreement with and you cannot force or make somebody else do something. It’s ok to agree to something and then change your mind.
You should never feel pressured into having sex. It needs to feel right for you and your partner. It might seem like all your friends are having sex, but they could be feeling the same as you and are making it up as they don’t want to be seen as the only person not having sex.
You need to think about being safe and protecting yourself from STIs (sexually transmitted infections) and unwanted pregnancies.
Contraception is used to prevent unwanted pregnancy and STIs. It’s important to consider what contraception is best for you and your partner. You should feel able to talk to your partner about the best option for you both. It can be difficult to decide as there are lots of different options available. Your school nurse, sexual health clinic or GP can help.
Welcome to Clover Street, the Medway sexual health hub
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Sexual health - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
If you have had unprotected sex you could be at risk of STI or pregnancy. You should seek advice as soon as possible from your GP or sexual health clinic – see above links.